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Welcome back!

I'm actually welcoming myself back to my own blog.  (Yes, I guess I'm making that "a thing.")  It's been over 3 years since my last post, and I've experienced much since then, global pandemic notwithstanding.

During this time, my wife (an Executive Director at her place of employment) and I have spent countless hours analyzing, dissecting, and generally discussing such diverse topics as...

  • Leadership,
  • Mentoring,
  • How to overcome Imposter Syndrome,
  • How to navigate difficult situations,
  • How to manage difficult employees,

...and others.

But it wasn't until I was driving back from the airport early yesterday morning after dropping her off for her latest business trip that I realized these topics may interest someone who chances across this blog while traipsing through the dandelion fields of the Internet.

So "buckle up buttercup" - during the next several blog posts I expect to wax philosophical on these and other topics that will hopefully be of interest to you.

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